@thatbrickster @PNS
I think it's unrealistic and unhealthy to think that men and women should stay virgins until they are ready to marry. (bad) teenage relationships and (bad) sex teaches important life lessons. teenage relationship drama allows us to value the really important things like love and trust later in life.

people who have not dated into their 20s have a way harder time finding a partner, since their tools for finding one are insufficiently honed.