Sometimes I think the whole "if you aren't expending every moment of your energy in naming and shaming than you are part of the problem!" People don't understand it's just an energy suck. We need to expend our energy building our families and communities. Growing the Church and spreading the faith. That's not say say we don't have a right to be angry and to speak truth to power but don't let it take so much of you that you don't also have time to love and to build. Living with hate only is no way to live.