@nora I see what you're saying and there are some things that I have absolutely outgrown now and when I've tried to revisit them I was just, not disgusted, but just not moved at all and I knew there was just no room at all for them.
But I wonder if what nostalgia really is is the belief that you were, maybe not a better person back then, but at least that you liked the person back then more than you do now. 1