@ryo
@Freefromfall @hakui @neatchee @wolfie

Probably then there is a little point of instances now. People coming into Fediverse are obsessed with creating communities.

People always tend to create the police and a government. Even on social platforms.

And it's always the same:
“Come, join our community, only here you can be yourself and meet fancy people! We have cookies!
<small><small><small>You're prohibited to <a_list_of_1000_points>, and we will judge not only you, who accepted this small text despite you didn't read it, but also those who are outside our instance</small></small></small>
Here is your picture of a cat.
Have fun! (*^‿^*) ”

So, probably, a direct connection to a person you like is the best.