I was invited to a wedding in Brooklyn, on a Friday, in the summer, at Prospect Park. I had to bring my brother and 2 disabled people. It took me an hour just to get from the hotel to the park.
My cousin spent the whole time with her friends or taking selfies, never even came over to talk with us. Indeed, one of the bridesmaids told a story about visiting with my family that actually offended me. This trip cost me a couple grand to attend.