I have fallen into the same trap many times. The loss of will is defeat, hands down.

Eventually, I learned to tune out unaccomplished do-nothings tell me that my goals are unrealistic & unattainable. Llife is too short for overcontemplation & inaction.

Want to do something? Find a way and go fucking do it.

Someone disrespected you? Call them out on it.

Be honest with yourself & others.

Only build relationships with those you can trust with your life, but above all, trust your gut.

Learn from setbacks & act accordingly.

Above all, don't ever give up.