@HebrideanHecate It's a cart-and-horse issue. Imagine if women had genuine freedom of choice to have babies in their 20s, when they are young & healthy, alongside their education (why can't a huge organisation like a University have a bloody creche, for example?
If salaries actually WERE a "living wage" so that both partners didnt need to work when the children were small.
If job-shares and part time work paid decent money. If we weren't all taxed to the eyeballs.

We all know what's wrong, (Capitalism) these are classic feminist talking points. Can't believe we still have to talk about them in 2025!
Back in the 1980s, we all though we'd be sending our personal robots out to work, by now!