@log -- LoL... The whole point of this post is to sort of show that this is the wrong answer.
As a person that identifies as neurodivergent, if you also identify as such, I follow a different modus operandi.
I'm not forced to pre-process everything and run it through "neuro-typical" calculus before speaking or acting.
I'm running in "neuro-divergent" code and sort of assume (with great success with other neuro-divergents) that other neuro-divergents have similar sensibilities.