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I *have* dipped my toe in the realm of romantic/physically intimate relationships in the past, to a limited extent.

And what I learned is that the outcome is always emotionally toxic for me, regardless of who I'm with. I'm not wired in a way that makes this possible without hurting myself and the other person.

So, I don't bother at this point. Also, I just don't feel the need? Now that I understand that I'm not wired for this to work, it all became a big shrug for me.