you're right, but there's a very important detail you appear to be missing.

it seems to be very common for neurodivergent people to be misperceived as exhibiting various misfeatures, tripping on social conventions, treading our atypical mental pathways, and expressing thoughts in ways that get misidentified. that's not to say that neurodivergents are incapable of being hateful, just that there are plenty of misunderstandings and lots of intolerance, ignorance, and prejudice.