It is kinda sad and frustrating I can say fullheartedly as former multi-year facilitator of SocialHub. People like to discuss their own project, yet in general not help doing the chores to maintain a community. It gave me more nuanced idea of what a useful concept of "community" is and what not. For AS/AP fedi to work a "commons" must collaborate, consisting of many independent initiatives (who may have their own community) and also include fedizen participation in the broadest sense.