@elilla Well, that was me. I was an androgynous "boy" feminist in the 80s, and didn't come out till I was almost 50. 30+ years wasted pretended to be a dude. I even listened to and read some of the anti-transsexual rhetoric back in the day, and thought, "Well, if she says it, it must be true. I think I will just keep these feelings to myself. Clearly I am just confused."