@mischievoustomato @apropos there is one other thing I want that may be unreasonable, but if we're friends and I say somethingI have experienced personally you don't believe please just nod your head and give me the moral support before you treat me like I'm an unreliable source that has to be fact-checked. It really sucks emotionally when a friend second-guesses you. This is different than calling out a friend that is mistaken. I just mean extend me the friend courtesy of putting up with me when I'm possibly a dumbass.