@mekkaokereke I think the first one of the things we don't say counts more than some little list feature.
People go places in groups mostly. The personalities who will stick through a place that is not popular, but has potential, are not the followers. People who build new things are not followers.
To me the issue here that I think I see is all the incessant whining. Why would you go somewhere as a group that is not fun and welcoming?