Think about it like this. Absolute SHTF scenario. Power grid's out, the local bluegums are getting uppity. You have two neighbors but for the sake of this scenario, you can only go with one:
John Normalguy:
>has his shit mostly together
>knows how to use a gun at least somewhat well
>basic survival skills
>knows how to interact and communicate with other people
And
Bill "hitlerlolicunnyrapist1488" Spingus
>can't lift a ten pound weight
>arms shake from malnutrition so even if he does know how to use a gun he can't aim for shit
>can't socialize to save his life (literally)
>he can get about 50-75% of a hitler quote correct and has a 4 terabyte hard drive of anime girl feet pics though

Who are you rolling with