@spacehost_help That might've been because I transferred over my friends list though I made a mistake so I think it has a few extra friends on there. it should settle down once it catches up, I know with Friendica that tends to be an issue, I think it's trying to sync everything ever from them. That and I was doing customization, adding a user, turning on plug ins (if there's a way to tell if'n one of those is causing a problem, let me know in case one's behaving badly).