@mekkaokereke Where I've seen this discussed, it's been by women who voted for Harris, whose partners said they would too, talked a big game about reproductive rights etc but then just... didn't vote.
I don't know if that's a statistically large group, and I agree that the right answer is that if your partner just sits on their arse and lets your safety be jeopardised then they shouldn't be your partner; but I do understand where it's coming from.