No one is saying it doesn't exist. I'm saying that it doesn't exist to anywhere near the level that people claim it does, and that there are households where wives coerce husbands to vote for fascists, and that this has less to do with vote integrity or combating domestic violence (both great things) and more to do with making excuses for the fact that the majority of white women vote for Trump
This country has never been comfortable believing how many racist women exist