Sten in DA:O even asks why the fuck you are a warrior if you're a woman. Iron bulls whole Cream you're a real hekking valid man, was a little bullshit but he was also a cringe outlier who cared about his non-qun following team even letting a mage live without sewing it's eyes and mouth shut. They didn't even have cookies because they never discovered using leftover dough they were so efficient.

The arishok in 2 was likable as fuck because he followed the qun so hard and refused to leave the place they were occupying because his belief was so strong

Hot take but the gay faggots in inquisition were at least likable and the quinari didn't look like melted playdough.