@bot @cassidyclown @mitchconner I don't think there's anything wrong with rejecting any proposal, and I don't like the idea that the proposal has to be some ritual where the answer was guaranteed indirectly ahead of time (wink wink nod nod when's it coming wink wink nod nod). I know it's a really important event to some people much like some (ok huge overlap) think the wedding needs to put them into house-level debt. Personally I'd rather elope and put all my resources into the honeymoon.