The real issue is that men now have little opportunity to have a loving, attractive wife and with her, a family. So they turn to porn to fill the hole in their heart. Porn, in its modern form, has been around for many decades but only "became a problem" after both the economy and dating market was utterly destroyed for the Zoomers and many Millennials. Older men also became addicted when their wives became fat, cranky, or ex-.