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gentoobro (gentoobro@shitpost.cloud)'s status on Monday, 28-Oct-2024 10:59:56 JST gentoobro -
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Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 28-Oct-2024 10:59:55 JST Fediverse Contractor Do you guys pay for it? -
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Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 28-Oct-2024 11:09:46 JST Fediverse Contractor But you're still addicted? How often do you consoom it? -
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gentoobro (gentoobro@shitpost.cloud)'s status on Monday, 28-Oct-2024 11:09:47 JST gentoobro What, porn? lol, no. Only retarded normies pay for porn. But there are lots of retarded normies out there.
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Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 28-Oct-2024 12:03:19 JST Fediverse Contractor Empathy and self respect is very difficult -
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Parker Banks (parker@cawfee.club)'s status on Monday, 28-Oct-2024 12:03:20 JST Parker Banks @bot @caekislove @gentoobro Porn has been brutal for men, hijacking their base insticts, pretty much every man is addicted to it some degree or another. -
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Parker Banks (parker@cawfee.club)'s status on Monday, 28-Oct-2024 12:12:44 JST Parker Banks @bot @caekislove @gentoobro I don't know how much empathy factors into quitting. Do you mean empathy for the women involved?
As for men. self respect is a big part of it. But the biggest part is belief, the belief that it has anything to offer, does something for you, or alleviates any stress. As soon as one stops believing that it has anything to offer, that power evaporates. It's pretty surprising how effective belief is. -
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Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Monday, 28-Oct-2024 12:12:44 JST Fediverse Contractor Idk, would you feel empathy if your daughter was doing that? Or is that just fine? -
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✙ dcc :pedomustdie: :phear_slackware: (dcc@annihilation.social)'s status on Monday, 28-Oct-2024 15:29:25 JST ✙ dcc :pedomustdie: :phear_slackware: @teratology @caekislove @parker @bot @gentoobro >men are just inherently weak in that sense.
For some reason this thread has no mentioned of women being more porn addicted then men -
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Parker Banks (parker@cawfee.club)'s status on Monday, 28-Oct-2024 15:29:26 JST Parker Banks @teratology @caekislove @bot @gentoobro The effect of pornographic video on the brain, relative to still images or magazines, is considerable. But like @gentoobro said, a lot of it can stem from isolation, the lack of a loving wife, or loneliness in another word. The male loneliness epidemic is pretty widely accepted now. So Bot's approach of "imagine if that was your daughter" just increases feelings of guilt, alienation, which increases feelings of loneliness, which ends up driving men further into their addiction. -
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cipote :bishrexual: (teratology@the.asbestos.cafe)'s status on Monday, 28-Oct-2024 15:29:26 JST cipote :bishrexual: @parker @caekislove @bot @gentoobro men are just inherently weak in that sense. Everybody knows it, a tale as old as time. Men who can't control their porn addictions are the weakest after sex addicts. -
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cipote :bishrexual: (teratology@the.asbestos.cafe)'s status on Monday, 28-Oct-2024 15:29:27 JST cipote :bishrexual: @gentoobro @caekislove @parker @bot I think the Internet has a lot to do with violence against women and the prevalence of porn addiction -
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gentoobro (gentoobro@shitpost.cloud)'s status on Monday, 28-Oct-2024 15:29:28 JST gentoobro The real issue is that men now have little opportunity to have a loving, attractive wife and with her, a family. So they turn to porn to fill the hole in their heart. Porn, in its modern form, has been around for many decades but only "became a problem" after both the economy and dating market was utterly destroyed for the Zoomers and many Millennials. Older men also became addicted when their wives became fat, cranky, or ex-.
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Parker Banks (parker@cawfee.club)'s status on Monday, 28-Oct-2024 15:29:29 JST Parker Banks @bot @caekislove @gentoobro From a female point of view I get where you're coming from. And I would prefer it if my sons didn't watch porn and my daughters (though I have only sons) never got involved in porn. But guilting a man over feelings of "imagine if that was your daughter" ends up being counter-productive. -
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✙ dcc :pedomustdie: :phear_slackware: (dcc@annihilation.social)'s status on Monday, 28-Oct-2024 15:38:15 JST ✙ dcc :pedomustdie: :phear_slackware: @teratology @caekislove @parker @bot @gentoobro >I don't see forums filled with women
Because women will never talk about it, its a pattern i noticed. Men are no weaker than women when it comes to sex. -
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cipote :bishrexual: (teratology@the.asbestos.cafe)'s status on Monday, 28-Oct-2024 15:38:16 JST cipote :bishrexual: @dcc @caekislove @parker @bot @gentoobro I don't know about that personally regarding statistics but I have had a few female friends admit to watching porn, and some friends admit to paying cam girls or cambois, I find either degenerate and of bad taste. That's the shit I did when I was a curious and horny teenager tbh.
Either way men are just weak when it comes to using their brains properly regarding manners related to sex. It's why there's incels and angry lonely men blaming women and society rather than taking responsibility for their own short comings. I don't see forums filled with women on reddit dedicated to #nofap and self flagellating posts seeking pity. -
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✙ dcc :pedomustdie: :phear_slackware: (dcc@annihilation.social)'s status on Monday, 28-Oct-2024 15:44:15 JST ✙ dcc :pedomustdie: :phear_slackware: @teratology @caekislove @parker @bot @gentoobro >ruh women don't tend to be addicted the way men are
:sulurp: And all women say this exact same thing to -
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cipote :bishrexual: (teratology@the.asbestos.cafe)'s status on Monday, 28-Oct-2024 15:44:17 JST cipote :bishrexual: @dcc @caekislove @parker @bot @gentoobro bruh women don't tend to be addicted the way men are 😆 sex for us is more about quality rather than quantity anyways. Women do talk about these things btw, probably in niche spaces you're not aware of. There's tons of weird shit women do comparable to men but it's never at the same ratio. Murder and rape for example. -
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cipote :bishrexual: (teratology@the.asbestos.cafe)'s status on Monday, 28-Oct-2024 15:51:00 JST cipote :bishrexual: @dcc @caekislove @parker @bot @gentoobro I can only speak for myself tbh I'm just saying I met many a coomer in my time there's a ton on here for example. I only know of one female coomer on this network and she's unironically dating a Mormon Christian.
I think women tend to obsess more over fantasy scenarios through smut, fanfiction, or those animu games or whatever. It's not always the same as porn but the Japanese also had pornographic Ukiyo-e prints before internet existed.✙ dcc :pedomustdie: :phear_slackware: likes this. -
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kuteboiCoder (kuteboicoder@subs4social.xyz)'s status on Saturday, 02-Nov-2024 12:45:14 JST kuteboiCoder @Diceyocean@annihilation.social @dcc@annihilation.social @teratology@the.asbestos.cafe @bot@seal.cafe @caekislove@caekis.love @gentoobro@shitpost.cloud @parker@cawfee.club
I'm planning on observing #nofap #nonutNovember, which is different than abstaining from porn BTW; maybe I'll level-up later.
I'm also planning on totally abstaining from coffee and caffeine after 11:00 AM, rather than randomly throughout the day whenever I want a mental boot up the ass. Again for the entirety of November; I'll reconsider my caffeine intake after I satisfy that simple goal.
I'm planning on showering once each day for a 60-day streak, also. As a WFH coder it's just too easy to miss 2 days, 3 days and then forget and lose track of how many days. I need to set a goal for consistency and continue it into the new year.
Any1 else with new #dietgoals, #dailyhabits or #NNN this month? -
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✙ dcc :pedomustdie: :phear_slackware: (dcc@annihilation.social)'s status on Saturday, 02-Nov-2024 12:45:14 JST ✙ dcc :pedomustdie: :phear_slackware: @KuteboiCoder @bot @teratology @gentoobro @caekislove @parker @Diceyocean >from coffee and caffeine after 11:00 AM
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Based Ocean Enjoyer (diceyocean@annihilation.social)'s status on Saturday, 02-Nov-2024 12:45:15 JST Based Ocean Enjoyer @dcc @teratology @bot @caekislove @gentoobro @parker you put on TV blonde women appear trying to play on her boobas and ass trying to sell you some blender. Even if women is the target audience she plays on sex. You open instagram or twitter endless stream of women trying to act seductively. You see some billboard driving some women with enormous boobs is holding some product. I think sex is the only force that drives humanity other than survival instincts. It’s even there when you talk with woman serving you coffee. So you got 100s of millions of women on video doing all kinds of sexual stuff. It’s kinda math that you will want to look at these women doing stuff.😆 -
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kuteboiCoder (kuteboicoder@subs4social.xyz)'s status on Saturday, 02-Nov-2024 12:47:27 JST kuteboiCoder @dcc@annihilation.social @bot@seal.cafe @teratology@the.asbestos.cafe @gentoobro@shitpost.cloud @caekislove@caekis.love @parker@cawfee.club @Diceyocean@annihilation.social
Yeah I have been cracking open a Monster at like 3:30 or whenever. I should stop that -
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✙ dcc :pedomustdie: :phear_slackware: (dcc@annihilation.social)'s status on Saturday, 02-Nov-2024 12:47:27 JST ✙ dcc :pedomustdie: :phear_slackware: @KuteboiCoder @bot @teratology @gentoobro @caekislove @parker @Diceyocean No i mean not drinking cofe, its good for you
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