@steve @ajsadauskas @mekkaokereke the issue I have run into is that discussing race with white people will almost always show they're racists who refuse to admit it's possible.
Having been in rooms full of only white men means I have seen how people act when they are comfortable. Many go along with the edgy jokes to stay in the favor of the obnoxious ones. Calling it out gets you ostracized as "one of those".
Maintaining employment is a constant balance of only saying just enough. It sucks