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@anemone @miiamustang I have a MtF friend who is pretty accepting of her circumstances and biological reality so she has accepted that she will never truly look the same as a female in terms of bone structure, head size, etc. But she said that she regrets getting plastic surgery and work done, because people treat her better because of it but she finds that to be the problem and I agree.

Sadly being gender conforming is still dangerous at this point in time so I can understand why people try hard to pass esp for the sake of their jobs and safety, but I think it's also unfair for trans women to hold themselves to the same standards the west has for conventional women's beauty standards. Most of us WoC don't even fit that standard anyways (not saying I understand the struggle of having dysphoria) so I think TW shouldn't either. I think it's much more liberating to live in your own truth than trying to convince others of it.