@miiamustang One time someone on xenofemmes wanted people honest opinion about dating lesbians and got mad at the truth that many are not interested in dating people who are male despite transitioning. The truth hurts sometimes, but most women usually lie to their friends and coddle them over their relationships and poor choices anyways.
It's not far fetched that women would lie to their trans friends about passing, because if they were honest they'd lose their shit. My mutuals have openly admitted and told me that they will never see my FtM friend as a man. I'm not surprised at all. If you really want to be sure or certain go stealth and find out. There's a lot of coddling on social media.