@dick @Dan_Hulson @Red_Hat @d0c40r0 @ForbiddenDreamer @Jean_Philippe_Micheaux @Turdicus @yockeypuck It's become a fetish. No different than the trad dude that omg would never talk about sex..or imagine sex outside of a bed. Meanwhile he's hiding the fact he's jerking it to weird shit every night after his omg tradwife has yet another "headache".
It's hiding. Boxing up part of you.
Essentially a lie.
Sex is important. Without it your relationship dies. Just how I see it. Play with whatever definition you like.