@lulu this means a lot for me to read, since my head operates the same way.

I don't have any plans when I'm going for a date with someone. We might end up as friends, best friends, in a romance or just have a nice time hanging out for a night. And if we click then sex could happen irregardless any of that :blobcatshrug:

Predefining the nature of the date before we have it doesn't really compute for me.