@jacklaridian perhaps this is because you’re he/him. Same as me.
I believe we have a responsibility to consider the experiences of people of other identities. I would call that empathy, not overthought.
Aside from that, there are indeed related variables. For example, women get “cat called.” And there’s also the related vagina slang.
I’m not saying this is an issue. I’m asking the question as a man who wants to be respectful with my language.