@NaClKnight but really, what are we talking about? is the work purely sex stuff? like erotica? if that's not the only focus (for example, it's a fictional story that INCLUDES some explicit sex stuff) then i would not really consider that explicit by any means. this is really weird territory for me, as i've written some gore stuff (there's a gory passage in my recent RCT piece, for example). it's troubling to quantify this stuff for me.
you were probably not expecting this sort of response, lol