@p@fsebugoutzone.org @lucy@netzsphaere.xyz @disarray@fedi.layer02.net @georgia@netzsphaere.xyz @sun@shitposter.world @vriska@lizards.live this, i think so many people just move from big city to city without getting to know their local communities beyond a couple cliques and just end up judging cities based on surface level places to consoom (omg they have local fad cookie place, amazing) and how aesthetic the infrastructure looks. i have my long term/internet friends which are mostly pretty remote but i vibe with much better that anyone i meet online but that still doesn't stop me from getting to know a lot of communities of people irl where i live, not that i want to get super embedded in them, but it helps give a lot of perspective when the people have known each other for decades