@Tinker52 You are being weird, intrusive, annoying and patronising, and asking questions which are facile and exhausting.
We learn very early on that society at large does not tolerate who we are, and that it puts us at a profound risk of being systematically medically and psychologically abused if we are found out.
One develops an instinctive warning system for what’s unsafe, and you’re lighting it up like a Christmas tree.