I'm in California. Spousal support is rare, and men actually fare well in divorces, including custody, relatively speaking.

I say relatively, because as a classmate of mine who has a family law practice once told me "family court is for losers, and it's trashy to put your personal life before the court." She also told me "I know what I do is shit, but I get paid." She kinda snakey. I keep a reasonable distance. Not my style tbh. I can't do it.