@aetataureate uurgh, this was such a mess. Not to in any way excuse some of Lotte's tactics in his defence, but their dynamic together, especially his proprietary touching and steering of her at public events, unnerved the hell out of me, because I recognise that relationship dynamic and it's a giant red flag. I remain concerned for her long term well being, for all that I'm sure she'd say there was no problem at all.