@liztai @toolsontech Agreed that it is!
(e.g. people who romanticize Small Towns/church communities or the concept of all social needs being met from one's local friends/family/affinity group
often are people who've never experienced that for real, or who were favored and got the warm embrace of community rather than the boot to lick or get kicked
-and I can be pretty sharptongued and toxic sometimes so I get that's hypocritical-)