It's interesting how much of these ideals are ingrained in rural life. Same as fathers sitting at the table with shotg*ns when boys pick up their daughters for school dances. We had that happen to my son his Freshman year. A girl asked him to a dance and when we went to pick her hub, her dad was doing that. My kid was on 14 and it really pissed me off. I sent my son outside and gave her dad an earful. I was just LIVID.