I'm going to jump in on this and I'll probably irritate a few of the guise that are younger...

Men over 40 mostly grew up in a world with limited online interaction. You had to go talk to people instead. Doing that builds confidence and women find confidence to be the ultimate aphrodisiac.

A little bit of game doesn't hurt, but just walking up to a gril, looking her in the eye and saying, "Hi!" goes way farther than it sounds.

And the old guise basically have that power built-in because of the world we grew up in.