You go where you feel the message resonates. If that's a hole-in-the-wlla strip mall independent baptist church or whatever and that's what does it for you, you go there. If it's some smells and bells ornate hyper-trad cathedral you go there. You go where you're feeling the message and if the message is right that's the right place. People like overcomplicating things because of the petty narcissism of small differences