@sim no, I don't think it is! I thought the overall goal of gay movements was to make it so it is seen as normal. you can find out your neighbor is gay, and it's just not a big deal, because the whole point is that gays and bis and straights are all just people trying to do their own thing in life. :cirno_shrug: or maybe I misunderstood lol, but I thought the end goal was always that it wasn't supposed to be this all-defining trait