@cinerion yeah its really bad. there's a lot of people that if they get the good job and all that, just get a passport and go somewhere else. there's a lot of places that aren't woke yet and you can get dates by just being a decent person. i dunno about domestic but there's increasing amounts of people here sayings it's largely pointless and bullshit, unless you get very very lucky and find someone local through happenstance. but the dating apps are trash.