@Tattie Absolutely all of this, and it's a mirror of the "bisexual as waystation to gay/lesbian" trope. And...yes, if it is, that's fine. But I literally lived in "I see too much boy in the mirror, but I'm not a girl" land for decades waiting for the world to confirm that this, too, happens, and that it, too, deserves respect, dignity, and support. Part of me does want binary transition, but not all of me. And that's fine.