@Senator_Armstrong @Owl @Zergling_man >he just doesn't meet my standards for what I want with an admin

I think graf is sort of the admin that fedi needs running the largest instance though, and I think a lot of the shade he gets sort of underscores the point I like to make about poast.

I think it's natural to wind up on poast and think "I belong vaguely here but not exactly here. I can see all of these people Graf doesn't tolerate. I don't know if I'm one of them yet because this is an unfamiliar place, so I need to go to a place I totally know I belong."

It forces you to lurk, scope out the rest of the fediverse, and slot yourself in into the right place for yourself - or to make an instance yourself. That's very good. I don't think it's a good place to be for more than a month or two, but I do think it is a good place for new people to look around and figure out what's up.