@girlonthenet it’s a common topic in poly circles. You can get insecure about yourself and what you offer when your partners could have anyone else. So many other options! Are you going to deliver? What happens if you don’t and other partners are ~better~?
That’s more of a personal insecurity and it shows easily under a poly prism.
For the “one person” line, alas, people don’t look kindly to fucking your friends. It tends it be used as a shorthand for “not one person can fulfill your emotional, financial, spiritual, personal and sexual desires “.
Article doesn’t strike me as super out of place, even if hierarchical polyamory is not my personal flavor. Creates a whole lot of problem I would rather not deal with!