@icedquinn @mischievoustomato @Moon @teratology @ageha I think the women I’ve dated, particularly the second GF, would happily take someone who wouldn’t just compliment their looks be occasionally fly off the handle, berate them, and perpetuate needless inane arguments. I complimented them and said nice things to them, but I never leaned into the abuse arena of things.
They were kinda surprised by that and expected less.