@mariusor @mfru two points: first, if I had framed it in these terms, you would not have flagged it?
Second: I disagree. In terms of "blame", I think people should be accountable for their words precisely because of the effect they have on others, and moreover I think that drawing out his reasoning regarding consent and sexual assault and harassment clearly demonstrates that *he* personally presents a risk to others in the practical sense of his participation in the community.