@goatsarah @llwynog When small things all align to make them the best / most hard done by person in the world. If it is a pattern then you can guess they are lying or just making stuff up to fit the narrative. For example Brenda said she wanted to move house when she retired because she didn’t know anyone in the village but my dad disagreed. Then he went into a care home but she couldn’t move house then because it would be too awful to abandon the friends in the village she’d known her whole life.