@interrupthandler @JoscelynTransient @Terra This is one of those things where you really can't know in advance. Who you are and what you want are things that are going to change specifically as factors of the process of transition. For example, I didn't know I was going to adopt such a strongly femme presentation, but I discovered the more subtle and in-between presentations I started with meant I was gendered as masc by the world, which made me feel unseen.