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@JoscelynTransient @tattie when you get down to it, being queer in any way or gnc is violation of the gender binary. like being a muscular woman who is heterosexual is in violation of the gender binary. Its every single way we violently police gender identity, gender freedom and expression.

Idk, i consider myself female, that is the truest way i can express my gender identity, but my other sexual characteristics are certainly not binary, my existence as a trans woman is fully in contrast to the gender binary, so i dont consider myself binary in any way. But at the same time i see Non-binary as an identity.

Like when i first applied to change my name they sent a letter that suggested i could choose Mx as a title, and at the time a lot of UK systems like banks were starting to consider accepting it. So i felt it applied to how i felt about myself at that moment, i felt i was going somewhere but not there yet, but more importantly that by taking it as a title i could be part of the wave pushing more institutions to accept it. But over time i realised i was happier as a Miss but there are tons of my friends who were now Mx's so i realised i was stronger stepping back, being what i was, and championing what they were.