@siege @tattie I know this is snarky, but this does make me want to then identify as "not not non-binary" 😅
I actually chew on this too, CJ, cause being trans is by nature being in violation of the gender binary. There's a video essay by Lily Alexandre that actually gets at some thoughts I share on this: https://youtu.be/eAXFn22q8Ac?si=s70XuIOpvOFc_C6c
Would be curious either CJ's or Tattie's thoughts because this is an area of queer language I'm still reflecting on.