@ErosBlog @girlonthenet I got a pile-on over on the birdsite a few years ago for saying that informed and enthusiastic consent, like GotN effortlessly incorporates into her writing, was hot as fuck in every single way. The boomers and reply guys divided between "a single yes is a yes to everything" and "you're problematic for finding it sexy in the first place", which tells us more about Twitter than anything else.
Nevertheless: informed and enthusiastic consent is so very very hot always.