@Koropokkur @hidden @pressure @opphunter88 @NEETzsche @Leaflord it's not just that, women have a blindspot where they will date chads, then they give advice like "you should be nicer, more aggreeable, and be more emotionally available" because that's what they want from their chad who doesn't give it to them not realizing the dude isn't a chad and actually needs to be less nice, less agreeable, less emotional, etc